2016年5月8日星期日

以海疗伤

静梅的话:文章是舍妹新近所写,家人推荐给我阅读,说她写出了我们以
前都不知道的苦恼!我就是文中反复提及的姐姐。与朋友分享!身为人师,诲人当以公心!我们要尽可能不去冤枉学生,尽可能端平这碗水!教学相长,师不必贤于弟子。你的学生有了你意料之外的发挥,不必一棍子打死。相反为师的鼓励和正确指引,可能你在为社会遴选优秀人才的同时,自己也从老师变成了师圣呢?
王姝
         出行山东前的准备工作是琐碎而且繁重的,但是我却充满干劲儿,想着一年的努力就要圆满成功了,累点儿也开心!其实掐指计算,这个日子从见到这个地方开始,我实实在在盼望了四年,而向上追溯,又怎能不说是我自三十年前的梦想呢!
        自从初二那年的暑假之后,就对大海产生了极度的渴望。心里学家说每个人内心深处都住着一个小孩,我也一样,她是一个向往大海的小孩。

        从小,母亲培养了我喜欢读书的爱好,课余时间除了和邻居一个叫小明的女孩跳跳皮筋就是窝在沙发上看书。小说,散文,童话统统全收!做中文老师的姐姐要求我每日背一首古诗,恰好兴趣所在,我也罕见地乖顺服从。记得母亲为我订阅的一期《少年文艺》中,刊登了一篇叫做《赶海》的卷首,配图是一幅简笔画,一个头扎羊角辫的女孩光着脚丫,荡着肥肥的裤管,拎着竹篓在沙滩捉蟹!当年物质的贫乏却无法阻滞我脑海丰富的想象,内心深处对海的期待拉开序幕……我还喜欢写作,(那可能也不能称之为写作)。尤其老师在作文课上诵读我的文章,我便总是沉浸在自己的故事里,让灵魂翱翔……

        至今我还非常清晰地记得,那一年我的语文老师姓唐。他的音容并不是我记录的重点。某一天的语文课,他腋下夹着教案,一本正经地踩着钟声走进教室,照例屏息凝神侧目扫视大家一番,宣布了一个令我热血沸腾的消息——征文比赛!至于是什么级别的比赛我已经记不清了,那时的小孩子,也并不关注这些,让我激动的是比赛的奖品,优胜者可以参加暑期的北戴河夏令营,每个班级只有一个名额!

        我不敢说胜券在握,但是冥冥之中的第六感觉似乎非我莫属,姐姐很关注我的征文,总是想给我建议或者帮忙修改,我一概婉拒!这是我的比赛,如果那样会让人觉得胜之不武,再说大赛不限题材,正好可以发挥我无尽的想象空间,这个享受的过程怎能让给别人?一番精心选材,反复字斟句酌,我上交了一篇小小说。剩下的时间就是忐忑的等待……

        不久,学校印刷了优秀征文作品选发给大家,我的文章被赫然排在第一篇!那时的喜悦可能是我一生中最幸福的几个时刻之一了。要知道,在那个年代,家里人口众多,温饱尚且难以达标,怎有闲钱用作旅行!接下来的两天,在极端美好中度过,我甚至开始梦想在海滩上赤足赶海的情景,想象插图中的主人公将变成自己,想象怎么搞到一个背篓装我捕到的螃蟹!

        然而骨感的现实击碎了我夏日的梦想,唐老师又一次踩着钟声走进课堂,他公布的结果是我意外之外的意外!当然,优胜者不是我!之外的意外是胜出的文章竟然是一篇我以为既无新意,又无文笔的泛泛之作!我忽然想起来,这篇文章就排在那本油墨印刷的作文集第二篇,原来结果早就有了,我只是空欢喜了两天……

        我已经记不清当年的心情是怎样一种沮丧,希望破灭的挫败感席卷着我!我找不到任何一个给老师用于说服我的理由,当然,老师也无需给我什么理由!很长时间,我默默地伤心,不敢声张,仿佛我很看淡这场失败,仿佛面对这个结果,我可以潇洒的呵呵而过!

        假期过后的某日,我因自习课与同学“交头接耳”被班长斥责,以我的性格当然不服,班长严厉且鄙视地说道:“一个破征文还至于抄袭,哼!”我的大脑顿时空白,原来老师认为我的文章来自抄袭!

        这是个可以说服那个年纪的我的理由!我偶尔遗憾自己为什么没有勇气去与老师沟通,是骨子里逼人的骄傲,还是怕人发现我悲痛的内心?

        但是自从那个夏天,我对大海的渴望变如安全气囊般膨胀起来!我很感谢班长当时对我的不屑,那个结论保护了我对文学的热爱,肯定了我努力的结果,以至于延续了我写作的习惯。

        高中,我随父母调动转学石家庄。我的语文老师姓黄,在她的推荐下,我参加了当年的全国中学生作文大赛并取得了二等奖。老师告诉我,河北省我是唯一获奖的同学,我为学校挣得了荣誉!我的心里只嘀咕了一句:“又不能去看大海!”

        很奇怪我从来没有过当作家的愿望,我心里的那个小孩一直与大海有关!

        三十多年过去了,几次出国旅行,我都选择了海岛,巴厘岛,马尔代夫,塞舌尔,毛里求斯,我成为一个彻头彻尾的海岛控,就连三亚的蜈支洲岛,我迄今登岛三次也不嫌多……

        年愈不惑,我不再追究唐老师曾经给予关注者的理由的背后有多少值得推敲的地方,那个年纪不明白的真相,如今也显然不再重要。北戴河也不再足以召唤我前往,我没有成为作家,对我来说,作家的吸引力远远比不上大海!周国平说,儿童之所以尊重老师,是因为儿童的内心有对荣誉的向往,而老师恰好有分配荣誉的权力……


        时至今日,我胶东的家已经圆满!炎炎夏日,我可以躺在阳台的摇椅上透过鸥鹭群飞的湿地遥望北方的海……三亚的家交工在即!三九严寒,我可以倚在主卧的飘窗旁攬望南方的海……当这一切即将达成的时候,我发觉我已没有了追求,原来自己竟是如此胸无大志,而内心的那个因海受伤的小孩,从此要用余生以海疗伤了……

作者王姝(左一)和母亲,大姐

2016年5月2日星期一

Report on 2016 Hanban-Sponsored Chinese Language Test Spring Camp for BIA Chinese students

 Gong,xiaoli  (译)
Baltimore International Academy, Maryland, USA, invited by Hanban
Test Center, successfully organized the first trip to China for the Chinese program’s students.
Please watch this historic video recording the partnership between our school and Confucius Institute/Hanban: http://www.tudou.com/programs/view/pEe5k0V1uDM/
The video was made when our school was two years old. It shows our students’ performance during the Chinese Bridge Competition organized by Confucius Institute of University of Maryland, College Park. The performers were only five years old back then. Eight years later, two of the students, Dontae Ryan II and Kolby Lewis, now 13 years old, participated in the trip, recommended by the same Confucius Institute.
The video, however, only marked a beginning for our students. From then on, our students have been participating in the Chinese Bridge Competition and demonstrating their high proficiency level. Over the past few years, Hanban has also been continuously supporting our school in various ways such as assigning Chinese guest teachers and donating books. With Hanban’s support, we have eventually succeeded in sending our students to China, making an unforgettable life experiences to them.
In reflection, the following four areas have contributed to the success of this trip.

Made Thorough Preparations Before the Trip
Since the invitation was confirmed by Hanban Test Center, with the leadership of Principal Mr. Enkiri and the school’s administration team, several discussions regarding the details of the trip took place to ensure the smoothness of the students’ first overseas trip. Eventually, the school decided to assign the Chinese Department Chair, Xiaoxia Zhang, and two teachers, Xiaoli Gong and Jingmei Shi, to chaperon 14 students on the trip. To relieve parents from the stress of applying for visas by themselves, Ms. Zhang drove to Chinese Embassy to help students and parents to apply for visas, while Ms. Gong devoted time to preparing documentations required of the trip such as camp and visa application forms.
Set Strict Discipline Delivered by the Conscientious Teachers
From the morning of March 23rd at BWI, the three teachers made
the students’ safety the top priority. With Ms. Zhang overseeing the trip, Ms. Gong keeping communications open with parents through the Internet, and Ms. Shi mainly taking charge of discipline, the teachers guided students to present themselves as dignified, respectful, open-minded, and as caring individuals and a team. To help the students reflect, every day before bed, the students and teachers got together to summarize what was learned during the day and what could be improved. To keep students’ spirits high, if there was any problem, solutions were presented and delivered immediately.

Managed the Students by Keeping Their Needs in Mind All the Time
Our students are in early adolescence and tend to rebel. To help them overcome jetlag and avoid problems, the teachers took turns waiting in hallways, even after midnight, to make sure that all students stayed in their rooms to sleep. As a result, during the eight-day trip, no student became sick, and all were in high spirits.

Took the Opportunity to Make the Camp Educational
The teachers used the trip experiences as teachable moments. Preparing the students to become ambassadors for a peaceful world, the teachers helped the students to understand the cultural sites the group visited and to acquire perspectives on
the culture.

A Welcoming and Inviting Beginning
The tone of the trip was set when the whole group was going through Chinese Customs. The officer looked at Ms Shi’s passport and asked her: “Are you a teacher? ” She responded: “Yes, I am a Chinese teacher.” He continued to ask her: “Are those your students?” After Ms Shi answered positively, the officer praised her: “You have done a good job getting the in line and waiting quietly.” Ms. Shi responded sincerely, “Thank you. I would like them to be friends to Chinese people.”.
After walking past the gate of China, the whole group was greeted by the warm-hearted tour guide, Mr. Zhang, Nan, who had been waiting there for us for a long time. Later, we arrived at Beijing Language and Culture College and were greeted again warmly by Ms. Zhang, Ai. She assisted us until midnight in assigning rooms to each student. Over the next few days, the dormitory management team, chefs, and teachers of culture lectures and language classes all made their best efforts to make our stay as meaningful and comfortable as possible.
Our tour guide Mr. Zhang Nan was very patient with our students. He explained the cultural sites in various ways to engage the students. When he found that our students were interested in Chinese-style shuttlecock, he bought a few for them to play with. His sense of responsibility and caring attitude touched our students’ hearts. They told him on the bus in Chinese,“We like you”.
When we visited Hanban Headquarters, Hanban presented a big welcome sign stating “Warmly Greet 2016 Spring Camp Test-takers from Baltimore International Academy, USA.” Later, we found pictures of Dontate Ryan II and Kolby Lewis as kindergarteners at five years old, and everyone was so excited!

An Educational Process
During the trip, we paid visits to cultural sites such as the Great Wall, the Forbidden City, and the Temple of Heaven. Seeing the spectacular architectures has enriched our students’ knowledge and perspectives, and also inspired them to inquire deeper into the Chinese culture. Through visiting the Temple of Heaven, a site where the former emperors prayed to the God of Heaven for a good harvest, the students learned the meanings that various colors in Chinese culture represent: Red is for good luck, green is for fertile fields, while blue represents infinite sky, and yellow the power of emperors. However, after the visit, our IB students, who are used to asking why, were discussing what colors Chinese people do not favor. Ms. Shi wanted to guide students to inquire. She told them that the meaning every color associates with has to be put into context. In a different context, the same color may represent a different meaning. Chinese people actually favor all colors. A student then asked her: “But Ms Yang told us that Chinese wear white on funerals. “ Ms. Shi then said “It is true that Chinese people use white to show condolence and sorrow whilst Americans wear black on funerals.” However, it does not mean that Chinese people do not like white. Ms. Zhang and I both have white dresses because we adore the color. This told our students that not everything is black and white. They need to inquire deeper to get a whole picture of certain cultural perspectives.
Our students also revisited the concept of being open-minded and used their language skills to communicate. At several sites, without asking, several Chinese tourists would hold our students’ hands or shoulders to take pictures with them. They would also comment on our students’ hairstyle and skin color. Because our students totally understood the comments in Chinese, they felt frustrated, disrespected, and upset. To guide students to walk out of the shadow, we talked with the students about this part of Chinese culture: Mostly these people adore you and therefore want to have pictures with you. Also, they are probably from smaller places of China and have never seen a lot of international citizens so they are too curious. Maybe you could tell them in Chinese: “if you want to have pictures with me, could you please ask me first?” Their parents also told them to be open-minded and not to be upset over this. Gradually, over other visits, our students started talking with tourists and were received as polite and cute. Wherever they went, they were very popular as people always wanted to take pictures with them. They even kicked a Chinese style shuttlecock with Beijing natives in a park, attracting a big crowd to watch. All of them felt like stars. In conclusion, during the trip, our students
were able to adapt to a new environment fairly quickly because the teachers guided them appropriately and because our school has cultivated to become ROCK students. Their actions show their respect for the Chinese ways of “love” and “communication”.
Another real engagement with Chinese culture happened during our visit to the Temple of Heaven. The students experienced Chinese people’s implicit way of expressing affections. By the Temple of Heaven, there was a couple dressed up taking photos. Ms. Gong told the students that they must have just got married and were taking nice photos to celebrate, but the students firmly told Ms. Gong that they were only modelling. Their evidence was that they witnessed the woman pushing the man’s hand away when he wanted to hold her hand. It proved that the lady did not love the gentleman. Gonglaoshi then encouraged them to ask about it in Chinese. So, Janiya asked the photographer in Chinese “Are they married?” The photographer held up his hand with a big OK to say, “Yes, they are.” This caught all students by surprise. Seeing their confusing looks, Ms. Shi made this a teachable moment. She told the students that this showed the different ways of expressing affections in Chinese and American culture. Chinese people think that love lies with the depth of their hearts but not on their lips. Therefore, they do not publically show their affection as a way to show respect for others. Therefore, Ms. Shi, Ms. Zhang, and Ms. Gong never tell you “I love you” with words, but you all feel that we love you with our lives! You will never see us show affections with our family in front of you, because we want to show our great respect for you. Meanwhile, we respect that your parents show affection more directly because we respect American culture.
The next culture class happened during a break of a crafts-making workshop. By accident, some students saw some women’s undergarments hanging over a balcony in a residential building next to the teaching building of the college. It took them by surprise again. Teachers explained to them that many Chinese families do not have dryers so they hang clothes under the sunlight for sterilization. They nodded their heads and showed understanding. Kolby Lewis even said he would buy dryers for Chinese people when he grows up. The experience taught our students to be culturally tolerant and understanding.
The eight-day trip has also taught the students to be responsible. By American habit, our students won’t eat food that they do not like. Therefore, when they first tried the buffet and did not know what some authentic Chinese food tasted like, they ended up wasting a lot. The teachers told them that in Chinese culture, there should not be too much food left in plates because Chinese people do not appreciate wasting food. Later, they began to take less food at one time and tried to finish their plates. When Hanban informed us that we would visit the high school attached to Capital Normal University, we were a little worried. The typical Chinese way of learning and teaching could be a challenge to our students. What if they could not sit still for the period? Before the visit, we stressed with the students that their behavior would represent Baltimore International Academy and even the United States. During the visit, our students sat through a period of ancient Chinese language class and a calligraphy class and participated politely in the latter class when asked to. After lunch, our students played basketball with the high school’s students and won the game 7 to 2. Some also talked some Chinese students into playing soccer with them.
What made us really proud is our students’ ability to bargain in Chinese at Beijing Tianyi Market. Without any help from us, our students bargained with different businesses. Their Chinese proficiency and intelligence “shocked” many sellers, but pleased us.
By showing great respect for Chinese culture, our students gained a more objective and positive understanding of the culture. Before leaving China, they were joking that they did not want to come back to the USA. After coming back, they were repeatedly asking when they would get invited again. Our students and parents are grateful to Hanban for the invitation and on-going support. This unforgettable experience will enhance the bridge between China and America because it conveys the genuineness of the Chinese people and affords the students a more personal understanding of the culture. It is predictable that they would act as the ambassadors between the two cultures and contribute to building a more peaceful and better world.

Reflection

First of all, we deeply feel that chance favors the prepared mind. With Principal Mr. Enkiri and the administration’s dedication to our students’ education, we earned this opportunity and tested our students’ language proficiency in real life. The director of the spring camp in Beijing Language and Culture College told us that our management of the camp was the best to date! We were also the only group that did not need translation. We are proud of this recognition for our school, students, and teachers. Then, this trip has also reflected some areas for improvement. Some students could not manage their belongings well and therefore often lost things. The teachers often had to of help them look for their personal items. These students also became negative once they lost anything and showed the need to better solve problems. Some students tried to get out of their dorm to talk with their classmates in the early morning or even at midnight, and this it made them sleepy the next day and even caused them to be late for classes. To ensure that they could get enough sleep, the teachers took turns to stay up late to watch them in the hallway.

Some students were wasteful but improved in this respect after the teachers talked with them. A few students threw tantrums when they were disciplined due to their behaviors. Last, because the students liked to play around, the teachers had to enforce discipline and to watch them carefully all the time.

Overall, a few flaws could not obscure the virtues. These problems are normal in an American society that emphasizes personal freedom. All of our students have improved themselves over the trip, especially Kolby Lewis, who helped his classmates and teachers a lot. He was always speaking Chinese and presented a very positive and sunny personality, making a deep impression on almost every one on the trip. Two students, Alton Foreman and Toni Anderson, represented all the students by giving speeches at the opening and closing ceremonies, respectively. Their fluent speeches were highly praised
by the host college. With all the efforts of our fourteen students and their teachers, we succeed on the trip!